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 Posted: Jan 1st, 2009 12:49 PM
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I agree and in some cases it may take quite some while before communications appear to become possible.
There is a thought, that upon death we are locked to the expectations of daily human based life. Our spirit and soul may transfer over to another plane, but along with the process we also take our Earth based learnings. As time itself carries forward and begins to lose meaning, we develop the spirit form. It can be seen that less need to think of time, because time holds less importance, brings with it a few problems when communicating with the other side. Such a transition is purportedly undertaken over perhaps 50 years, after which, the spirit self has detached itself from time and, perhaps largely, because noone they knew while alive is still around to make contact with.
Also, during the first months and perhaps years, a spirit form will attempt communications with the expectations of when alive. Such a method might well both help and also hinder successes. Some reversing of EVP's, slowing down or speeding up might well be due to trasitional stages that appear later on as the spirit changes. A couple of years would therefore seem to place your fiancee in just about the right area of spirit progression for successful EVP work. I hope that is of some comfort.